Sex And Yoga

There's two things to keep in mind when thinkin' about sex and yoga.

First thing...

There is only one verb that the term "Making love", can apply to. It's sex.

Now, some smarty is gonna be saying something like, "I make love, when I look at my man". Ok.

Say to your man, "I wanna make love to you tonight". And then, when he gets you in the bedroom, just look at him. See if he agrees with your application of this term.

Alrighty, back in reality, we call sex "making love".

Have SEX.

Here's why. You only make love when you have sex. Think about it.

If you aren't having sex...then you're not keeping the love alive. You're not making more love. You're relying on the old love.

Don't have sex with your partner for long enough, and all the love will have gone out.

Second sex point, is that yoga is about control. 

...all sorts of control.

...including sexual control. This is what is meant by the Yama, Brahmacharya.

I'm not going to sugar-coat this for you...and it's bad ...ready? ...here goes.

If you masturbate a lot, you are not controlling your sexual energy. While I'm at it...

...if you masturbate to porn all the time, you're way off yogic base.

You're not respecting yourself if you don't have a partner (masturbation), and you're not respecting them if you do (the porn thing).

I'm tryin' to keep this M rated, so I'm not goin' into why.

Any yogi (teacher) that waters down this application of Brahmacharya, is also a watered down yogi, and maybe you should re-think your teacher.

Here endeth the lesson, (I went with the biblical ending 'cause I sure feel like I've been a preachin'. Tough topic too) J.